Victims

Trump claims Men are at a time that is scary, dangerous. A man can be accused of assault true or not. Of course Trump is of the generation and class that sees others, esp. women, as use and throw away items. So of course they are scared, fearful cause their history carries same kind of actions they now have to deny. 40 yrs ago we all looked the other way. All except Men and Women who were sick and tired of playing a game that reduced folks with fear and intimidation.

But men have nothing to fear. Part of the answer is quite simple. As long as men treat others as equal and with respect we will be fine. Last I heard respect was not a limited quantity. Equality is part of this country’s blood.

The more difficult issue is patriarchy. I think men have to be parents. Not on weekends but changing diapers. Wiping up puke. Leaving work for apts. Men need to be caregivers and we need to allow them.

Men need to learn respect for others. And learn it from other men. Not only women.

Ultimately add long as we live under patriarchal rule we will suffer the consequences. As long as we play around the edges and pretend things can and do and have changed well keep getting what we deserve. What’s that?

A system where someone like Trump represents us.

Eternal Vigilance?

Kavanaugh notes on hearing.

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As our country grew, came to be united, there was primary concern, perhaps a carryover from the Monarchy we were escaping from, that today is rarely if ever discussed, in the terms used in the 18th century, particularly during the 1800 Election between Jefferson/Adams. To a man (of course all white males of the landed class) they feared the division of politics into a dual party system. I imagine, (though have not specifically researched yet) their fear was that if this occurred, their great democratic experiment would fail. (How Slavery was dealt with carries this curse as well). The single party system very quickly failed. Thus, we have a 2 party system which has slowly turned into a deep partisanship vehicle for favoritism, and to many, the Rich, and perhaps with Trump at the wheel, despotism. Then, we had the Jeffersonian common man theory vs. Adams, Monroe representative theory based on the idea only a few were capable of governing.

If it’s thought about we’re not told about either this split and/or the 2 theories of governing. We’re all one big happy country!!! Well, sort of, but not really.

Senate hearing for Kavanaugh clearly showed this split at the least to publicly displaying a nominee unable to control his emotions, respect for conflict, intractability on views when challenged, and to many, including myself, outright lying at worst, softening events at best.

What’s gone before is done. Based on his behavior, apart from his unpopular views, I do NOT want him confirmed. Would you want someone who behaved as he did to be responsible for YOUR life as the last resort in our system? I certainly hope not. And the things is, other choices are there! I’m not saying justices that support my views, that’s not what the Court is for (though it has become), but justices who are actually deliberative despite their own views.

Finally I will say, anyone who channels Trump behavior, in NO way deserves confirmation. Pages could be written about all this. Others can have at it. I’m just posting some thoughts that have filled my head, making me Mad, Sad, concerned. Do with them what you wish.

Devils Triangle
It appears he lied about this.

BOF
Questions his answer at the least. One definition means to intake substances via the anus.

Conservative Kennedy wonders about our Democracy

Rape as power over and oppression of
War esp. shows use of Rape as victor’s spoils and instillation of fear

Drinking Addiction, Alcoholism
One point belying Kavanaugh’s “occasional” overdrinking is his “weak stomach” comment. If one drinks to puking and then keeps drinking, you are an Alcoholic and Addicted.

Conspiracy
I don’t think believing this, would reassure me if Kavanaugh was looking at my case.

Demeanor
Definition

Truth

Frat parties

ABA

Equality

Break time. Pardon any errors. Mine alone.

 

“Ladies and Gentelmen, here’s one for friendship” Jackson Browne talks about writing These Days and friendship with Gregg since they were 18.

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10155814318220698&id=312475130697&_rdr

A beautiful song if one can ever lay claim to that title. If you know this song, then you know what folks are talking about and why.

Finding out Gregg helped write it adds more than a touch of mystery and magic to it.

A little at a time

Bernie’s health plan would cost 37 trillion. So we all say it can’t be done. That’s the problem. We want to fix it all at once instead of working on these issues incrementally as they arrive. Doing a little over time spreads the pain across the board so we share it and we can all adjust.

That’s the problem: We want either to avoid issues so we can get reelected which is more important than governance.